About Me, Naheed Ali.

Origin Story

Imagine being a 6-year-old girl who doesn’t speak the language, having already lived in several cities across two countries in Southeast Asia. Then, picture her moving to North America, enrolling in school on her own because her dad was defending his Ph.D. and her mom was busy taking care of her two younger siblings. That little girl was me. And that moment, that leap of faith,  helped define who I am today and anchor the foundational belief of my coaching practice:

No matter the unknown, the journeys we take, or the obstacles we encounter, we all can step into the unknown to create the life we want and richly deserve.

 

Becoming Naheed

Hi, I’m Nancy — though my given name is Naheed, and it’s a name I’ve come to embrace fully. Reclaiming it is my way of honoring that little girl, my heritage, and the woman I’ve become.

Like most everyone, my journey hasn’t been a straight line. It’s been filled with challenges — difficult relationships, a career I never planned, five major surgeries, and a later-in-life ADHD diagnosis. There were times when life threw everything it could at me.

Driven by western ‘rugged individualism’ and South Asian cultural expectations, I pursued the definition of success given to me, but felt unseen, unheard, and misunderstood by both sides. 

I struggled. At home, I was Bengali; outside of the home, I was American. I was always wearing a mask to fit in. Over time, this confusion of identity left me with feelings of disconnection and emptiness.

For a vessel to be empty, by definition, means it can be filled. My inner emptiness led me to ask: What could fill my longing for authenticity, inner peace and joy? Turns out, that would only come from learning to gracefully inhabit all of who I am. 

The masks I wore helped me feel safe, but dropping them made me feel whole.

And by becoming whole, I have built a fulfilling life filled with an extraordinary family, a supportive husband, and a career that took me all the way to the C-suite.

Background & Accolades of an

Impact-Obsessed, People-Powered Change Agent

Decades of experience in being a change agent in the corporate and non-profit sectors turned me into an expert in building strong relationships with internal and external stakeholders, revenue growth, culture-building, social impact and philanthropy. My superpower is in building mutually beneficial partnerships and finding solutions where only obstacles appear to exist. I have a reputation as a unicorn in creating sustainable revenue strategies for mission-driven organizations, while building authentic and meaningful relationships. 

From serving as a guinea pig in the newspaper industry when hired by the Los Angeles Times, to executive director for a youth-based literacy program for children in government-subsidized housing in Chicago, to serving as a strategic consultant for the United Nations- Women Peace and Humanitarian Fund, change and social impact have always driven my work. 

My work always hinge on the same principle: an unwavering belief in human potential. 

And that principle has led me to my life's second act -  launching this  highly individualized coaching practice. And when I’m not in joyful service in this work, I'm experiencing the joy of our global communities with my adventure partner Kulbir, savoring time with my daughters and their families, or exploring all that my beautiful hometown, Chicago, has to offer.

Eric - I want this section in much smaller font and possibly running along the page...just too much here this way. Credentials & Competencies

Relationships have always been my greatest skill. By recognizing the reality of invisible burdens and untold stories, and maintaining sensitivity to different perspectives, I’ve tended transformative leadership by first meeting people (and organizations) where they are today.

My greatest strengths from corporate & consulting are also woven into my coaching practice:

  • Serving as a change agent for growth and impact
  • Creating effective turnaround strategy for areas of struggle
  • Expanding resource bases and the capacity to hold more abundance
  • Tending and leveraging relationship and support networks
  • Improving communications and collaboration strategies for strengthening relationships
  • Empowering ownership of unique roles and identities

Academics

The Ohio State University | Graduate Minority Fellow,  Journalism 
Ball State University | Honors College Graduate | Journalism 

Success Redefined, Life Redesigned

As a first generation eldest daughter, South Asian single mother, and ADHD woman of color in the C-Suite, I’ve had plenty of lessons and learned a thing or two about perfectionism, self-doubt, and masking to fit in. Finding shanti, a deep sense of peace within, came by bravely facing what kept me awake at night and tending the emptiness, frustration and unhappiness in my heart. 

This solidified the foundation of my coaching practice: Success isn’t found in denial of heritage, masking identities, or compromising our unique perspectives and beliefs. True success is in stepping into the fullness of who we are.

Self-knowledge, grounded authenticity and a growth mindset are the keys to creating a life of vibrant relationships, abundant wellness and unshakable self-trust. By embracing all of who we are, we can find peace and joy in the essence of shanti.

Testimonials

"Working with my life coach, Naheed, has been a transformative experience. Her guidance and support have helped me reach new heights, both personally and professionally. I am so grateful for Nancy's eternal deep wisdom and gentle yet unwavering encouragement in helping me become the best version of myself. "

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My North Star: Unwavering Faith in Humanity

No matter what we’ve gone through or are going through, our greatest ability is that of creation: human nature contains the innate potential to evolve, choose change and build a more meaningful life.

I’m committed to empathy, compassion, and an unwavering belief in humanity. I believe in us, and I believe in you. It’s never too late to transform your career, align your life and direct your journey towards greater purpose and fulfillment.

Whether you are interested in coaching support or want to inquire about consulting services, I’d love to learn how I can support you.

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